based on personal experience difficulty only arises to gays, lesbians are easier to be accepted by the crowd that i deal with. The popular reason for this is because apparently, lesbians are hotter when they make out. Why is it that it cant be the same for two guys making out.
To make my point try this; try picturing in your mind your ideal physical guy now try picturing two of them, kissing and caressing each other.
Try the same thing but now try imagining two females instead males.
See. even if you say you are open to homosexual relationship, the picture of two men making still brings disgust in your thought. And female to female is somewhat easier to take in. Some people may say they can take in this things at with no prejudice at all. i ask you again, really? if you say yes then good for you or you are just denying it; because generally it is not.
So what i ask myself is this, why is it that i find it harder to interact with gays than lebians; it is virtually the same thing. And then i thought of a possible reason why we have this feeling of uneasiness. This is purely from my basic knowledge on psychology, biology and logic.
When life was simple on Earth, the role of males is to be the provider of the group. Anatomically equipped to hunt down savage beasts and carry a heavy load. Pumped with hormones to develop the body and perform such tasks. Having this role males are then viewed in an powerful position. not exactly the head, but holding a vital role for the survival of the pack. performing less than expected would mean weakness in character.
Then pheromones come in to play, it is a scent unique to each an every individual distinct for male and female. During the course of man's evolution we have learned to associate the male scent with power and masculinity. The scent of being tough.
So now back to present time, the product of years of evolution, when we come in contact with the men who present themselves as females, no matter how open minded we are, no matter how we tell ourselves that it is ok, in the back of our mind something tells us that there is something wrong. giving us that feeling of uneasiness and with some people discomfort.
Now you are asking why is this not true for the lesbians. you see during the earlier days the task assigned to the womenfolk is to gather, pick fruits and prepare the meat. women's scent has been associated to lesser task ergo lesser figure of authority ergo they can afford to be emotional and to giggle and hold hand with other women in the village while men fight for food in the wilderness. taking that to what we are today, more people are more comfortable having two females sleeping together than having two males showing affection for each other.
what i say is this, mankind is now entering a new phase where in homosexual relationships exists. more and more people are now getting open to this kind of things. What i say to my gay brothers who are gonna read this, im sorry for the uneasiness its not that my mind is not open for the lifestyle that you have chosen its also somewhat biological.
